Forgiveness

Written by Patricia Zimmerman

Many people believe that asking God for forgiveness automatically absolves them of their wrongs. Yet true forgiveness goes much deeper than words—it comes from the heart.

Forgiveness frees the soul, allowing both you and others to move on from past pain. Words alone are easy to speak but not always heartfelt. True forgiveness releases the suffering connected to an experience, creating space for change, healing, and peace for all involved.

Take responsibility for your role in any situation. Ask forgiveness for what you may have contributed—intentionally or unintentionally—and extend forgiveness to those who have hurt you. Don’t forget to forgive yourself for misunderstandings or missteps.

Apologize for not accepting others as they are, and forgive yourself for not fully accepting who you are.

God does not judge. Only humans judge—ourselves and others. God sees us as Spirit having a human experience. Through these experiences, we grow in love, compassion, acceptance, and forgiveness—for God, for others, and for ourselves.

To God, there is no right or wrong—only experiences from which we learn. Like children, we all make mistakes, and God knows there is no one harder on us than ourselves. Adding to our misery serves no purpose.

Often, people ask God for forgiveness because it is easier than facing the person they hurt. True healing comes from asking forgiveness directly from those affected, taking responsibility, and working to restore and heal the situation.

Compassion is the first step toward growing love, and forgiveness is essential for lasting, meaningful change.

Blessings to you on your journey.