The Truth About Breast Cancer
If you give a man a fish, he eats for a day. If you teach a man to fish, he eats for the rest of his life.
When you do everything for everyone else (also known as "buying" love - you are getting something out of the situation or you wouldn't be in it), you rob them of the opportunity to experience and grow; you take away their self-respect. You become a crutch; they cannot live without you.
Soon they begin to act like spoiled children; they do not appreciate you or what you do for them. Do not get mad at them, for you helped to create the situation. You never set boundaries - what you will allow and what you won't allow. You are the one who will be disappointed in the end (resentment).
This repressed anger, known as "mothering to the point of smothering," is what causes breast cancer. All dis-ease is the result of a negative emotion. All negative emotions are rooted in fear.
You cannot change anyone else, but you can change you. And when you change, your world will change with you. Your body will heal, and so will your relationships.
Create beauty - Love yourself by taking time for you - Live life - Love life. Blessings to you on your journey!
With much love, Pat